38 posts tagged “chan”

My weekend was pretty chill, yet fun.

Chantelle came into town to pick up her son, and we decided to hang out, even after our big fight a while back.
No one apologized, which really wasnt expected but we still had a good time.

We all hung out at Caldonias for a bit..

So apparently I havent made an update with any real substance in it for a few days so I guess it's time, considering theres some shit that's gone down!

Lets start off with some good news. My friend Melissa, who i've known since the 3rd grade, that just found me on facebook a few weeks ago, has decided to come out and visit for my birthday!!!!!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAY!!! I am SO freaking excited I can barely contain myself. I havent seen this girl in like, over 7 years. She's excited to have a weekend without kids and responsibility, and well, my life is like that every day so I will definitely be showing her a good time!! We talked for almost an hour and a half on the phone tonight, we have so much to catch up on! And its funny how much we still have in common and are soooo alike!

My birthday party is going to be on the 12th this year, since my bday is on a tuesday, but whatever, it shall still be fun! Plus i took the next day off of work so I can recover ( =

The other unfavorable (if you can say that) news is that apparently Chan and I are not on speaking terms. She de-facebooked/myspaced me LOL. Its hilarious to me actually that she's all immature about things just because I told her the truth like a GOOD friend would rather than sugar coat things and let her live in an imaginary world.

I straight up told her, she is the common denominator for all the drama in her life and she feeds off of it. She tried saying ron never said good bye to her before she left, but he showed up at her going away party, to me that counts, but she also said they were never "friends" he was just someone she talked to... uhh yeah, okay. whatever. She said that *I* was envious of *her*... lmfao. Not so much, never ever. I reminded her that the only people who think others are envious or jealous of them are shallow self-involved people such as herself. That obviously me being mature and talking to her like an adult was not working with her, and I should just be immature like Chase and maybe then she'd pay attention.

She stated that I was a half-ass shitty friend... why?... "Because I bought my plane ticket to come see her in KC even before she had moved out there"...........I'm sorry, what?! She BEGGED me to come see her and I did. So that makes me a shitty friend? For telling her the truth whether it hurts or not. I would want someone to do that for me if I was acting like an idiot. But hey, whatever. She tried to say that "she never bitched at me" when i was out "fucking half of denver", psha, whatever, lol, i said no, you never bitched at me, you ENCOURAGED ME and said if you were single, you'd a been doing the SAME EXACT THING, so point being? Oh yeah, none.

I'm not the one who moved home to mooch off my grandpa and "save money". I just moved to a diff. cheaper apartment and started paying off my bills, like a responsible big girl.

Its just shocking (kinda) that she can throw a 6+ year friendship away over me being truthful to her. This really was a long time in the making, i try to tell her lil things over a period of time, but this happened to all come out at once. Mostly because she called me a C*^T.....and to me, thats a deal breaker, and I just went off. Had she been IN CO saying that I would have beat her ass on the spot friend or not.

So in some ways its good riddance. There has been NO drama in my life the past 4 days that we havent been talking. And that is kinda nice. My phone is a lot quieter and I dont have any random ass calls from her. I've thought about writing her an email, but thats probably just adding more fuel to the fire. I made sure to let her know that shes pretty much burning all her bridges here and if/when she does come back, she's not gonna have any friends LEFT. She said she didnt care about burning her bridge with me. So, that's on her. WTFever. It's stupid really.

This is one of the main reasons I have VERY FEW female friends. They are all so much drama.

Anyways, I'm glad tomorrows friday. Wish it was payday though. Booooo. I really have nothing to look forward to going to work tomorrow. LAAAAME. It's been pretty warm here the last few nights and it amazingly hasnt rained in like, 2 days i think. But because my ac doesnt work i wake up like, overheating at night and that sucks. I have a fan on but it can only do so much. It's causing my scalp to break out cuz i wake up sweating. Super lame.

Rons taking me to the movies tomorrow night to see The Proposal.. YUM Ryan Reynolds.. he is on Jimmy Fallon tonight too yay! I received 7 pounds from NetFlix today, and Im going to try and not watch it until I see ATC on saturday so we can see it together.

I got my new bra's in the mail yesterday and theyre super duper cute! Today i got my car-phone charger and USB cable from ebay. Kickass! It's like christmas this week!

Well I think thats enough for now I should probably go get ready for bed. Maybe sleep good for once this week and not wake up still feeling exhausted. We'll see!

I hate when plans fall through. They're called plans for a reason. You pick something to do. You block off a space of time reserved just for that, and you have fun while you're doing it.

Well when Chan's involved I KNOW plans will ALWAYS change.

She's been up my ass since TUESDAY saying how much time she wants to spend with me while she's here and we're gonna go out and do this and that yada yada yada...

I saw her Thursday when she came in. She came to my house took a shower, hung out with her kid. Then she went to dinner with her son and Chase while I stayed here with her dog..whatevs.

Friday I had planned for us to all go to Sutra for a friend of a friends bday. They had VIP and bottle service already paid for. Meaning FREE. Meaning all we had to do was show uP ANd drink.

So when I get home friday I text her and ask whats up, what she wants to do before then because its not till 1030-11 ish.. Well then she comes up with she ONLY has 16 dollars to go out with, yada yada yada.. well i only have 20. So....? Point being?... Well then it changed to Her, Josh and Chase were going to MVP's instead. (a super ghetto white trash bar) I said no thanks, and then ripped her a new one for flaking on me. Seeing as how she had been "worried" about it since TUESDAY. I should have known. But I wasn't going to reward her bad behavior and act like it was OK that she was hanging out with chase. One of the MAIN reasons she MOVED to KC was to GET AWAY FROM HIM. ugh. wtf is wrong with girls why are they so fucking stupid.

Blame it on the Goose

So ATC and I ended up just going to TGIFridays and having dinner and some drinks. Stopped by the Liquor store on the way home and picked up a bottle of Grey Goose. (gotcha feelin loose) sorry.. stuck in my head. We came 

Quarantine

Chan called me AND WOKE ME UP. To tell me it was really lame, and she got really drunk, and josh's friends made fun of her for drinking OUT OF THE PITCHER. And then, she hit someones car in the parking lot when she was leaving because she was so drunk. HAS SHE LEARNED ANYTHING FROM HER DUI? Obviously not. Has she learned anything from the past? NO. Everytime she's ever ditched me or flaked out on plans to do something retarded, something bad ALWAYS HAPPENS TO HER. Did she leave her info for the other car? No. She just took off. W T F

We havent talked since this morning. Her excuse yesterday was, she realized I'd be out there in 2 weeks and we'd be drinking a lot, and she just wants to spend as much time with Cameron that she can while she here. Thats fine, he's her son. But its not just cameron, its' Chase as well. She asked why I don't like him anymore or want to hang around him. UM HELLO YOU FUCKING WENT TO JAIL BECAUSE OF HIM. Why did she not like Marc the whole time I was with him? Because she was my friend and cared about me. But she doesn't see it that way. All she see's is Chase's huge penis. Until they get in a fight and she remembers he has no future, no money, no ambition, and nothing to offer her. Other than his penis.

ANYWAYS.

I thought only girls pulled that whole "I'll leave something at his house heheheheheh" thing... cuz this week ATC has left socks, underwear, and his belt here. LoL. I don't know if he's done it subconsciously or he just forgot it or what.... but I think its funny... and cute... (=

Went and bought a cute, cheap curtain rod at Target today, only 6.99, just finished putting it up, but Im waiting now for my curtains to be dry.Also got some super glue, and put Marvin the Martians Gun back on the cookie jar. All Better. And bought some new, longer, heavier, stronger nails to finish hanging stuff up around the house. I think Ill try and get some laundry done today and.... I dunno what else. we'll see. 

Last night after I informed ATC of the passing of my beloved London, he expressed his sorrow for me, asked if I needed a hug (yes please) and promptly came over after work. Even called on his way because he was stuck in construction zone hell which took a lil bit longer, but wanted to assure me he was on his way. Showed up with Jager, Corona, and himself. It was just what I needed. I didnt cry anymore after he showed up.

We watched That 70's show, Scrubs, and the demise and rise of Steve-o.
Went to bed around 2 and I slept so good however i went to sleep and woke up with a headache, more like a sinus headache from all the crying...

I've only teared up a few times today \=
Chantelle is coming in to town for the weekend, she's almost here. texting me every 5 seconds with her whereabouts.

Oh where to start where to start...

Today started off decent... by noon I hadn't heard from the leasing company, so I gave him a call after lunch, and heard back from him around 2 ish... he said that my credit history is kinda shitty (not those exact words, but i already knew that) and it's not something the company would usually try to take on, BUT, IF I could show that I was in the midst of paying things off, and making an attempt at correcting things, then they could work with me on it. (score!) 

Now my dilemma was, well FUCK how am I going to do that?!

Drowning in debt

I managed to call 3 different collection companies, and set up payment plans for all of them. Ranging from 4 months to 18. With manageable monthly payments. Why didn't I do this before? Because it wouldn't have been manageable.

One of them was able to email me the promise letter, and the other 2 will be faxing them to me @ work tomorrow morning. If not I will be on their ass like cats on tuna fish. I have one other company I need to call tomorrow during business hours.  I want to get this all straightened out and taken care of by Friday. And be able to put a deposit down.

I think I can probably print off something from Sallie Mae showing my re-payment plan for my school loans, and something maybe from the IRS showing my tax payments.... hmmm hmmm hmmmmm

During work we were also notified that will have another mandatory Furlough day the Friday before Memorial Day. Meaning we'd have a 4 day weekend instead of just 3. Again, one being unpaid. (Boo). But that gave me a bright idea. Since Chantelle is leaving me this Saturday for Kansas City, that gives me a good excuse for a vacation!! Plus free room and board. So, I checked Southwest, and they were having a kick-ass sale $69 each way.(ending today) Yes I know I just said Im having money issues, but this is where good 'ol Mom comes in to play. (=

I asked, she said yes. She claims it will be part of my b-day present... I said ehhh okay.. but im sure you'll forget by my bday and ill think of something else I want (=  So, I'll be leaving for KC may 21st, and returning the 25th.  I will have to figure out something with the animals.. since Josh moved to Oklahoma i dont have an insta-pet-sitter.... ATC may be an option (if i get the apt) I also have another friend out that way... actually, I have 2 of them come to think of it. . . . .

I may even ask ATC if he wants to join me in KC, who knows.. its not super exciting, but its something to do for a weekend. We'll see we'll see. 

So if ya'll could please cross your fingers for me that this apt thing works out in my favor, i'd be mucho appreciative of it and send some good karma juju your way when its your turn!

Being lazy that is...

Well this morning I went and got my nails and toes done. That was fabulous

Nails

I feel so much better and girly now....

Then I went by Chans.... did I mention that my BFF IS MOVING TO KANSAS CITY.

I probably havent because I don't want to believe it's true, and I don't want her to go.

She says it will only be for 1 MAYBE 2 years.. but still. WTF am I going to do w/o my BFF????? Ugh...

Anyways, so i went over to her apt today to let the dogs play (btw what will ellie do without HER bff?) and sat there and talked to her for a while. We havent been able to do that in god knows how long because there's always bf's or kids around... it was nice. Im going to miss her so much. I told her I wasn't going to help her pack, because I don't want her to leave. I don't think that's unreasonable right?

I also went and looked at an apt today thats right by my new job, but it was a lil small, and didnt have a dishwasher.. and well i hate doing dishes... so ehhh...the search will continue it seems... i still have over a month to find a place and move.

My landlords sister called me back the other day to tell me she received my notice, and that they were planning on selling the place after I left.. interesting. . . . if they'd just put a lil money into it, they could sell it for a whole lot more, but they dont wanna make the effort so that's on them.

Anyways, I came home, and fell asleep on the couch for about... 4 or so hours... woke up around 8 something tonight made a steak (it was okay) and been sittin here watchin tv now....

What Happens in Vegas (Widescreen Edition)

What Happens In Vegas is on, and I started it right on time, so that rocks.

Im probably gonna be up for a while since I slept all evening.

It totally feels like my weekend only lasted a day! I want more!

Friday went to Fridays with Emelina, then came home and was asleep by 9:30.

Saturday was able to sleep in till about 10, that was very nice.
ATC and I met up with Chan, Ron, Jessica, Damon, Josh and his girl since Josh is in town visiting for the week. We chilled at Challengers for a while, drinking 1.75 bloody mary's and playing pool. Chan, Damon, ATC and myself then met up with Chan's "phone guy" and we headed to Opal, had a few REALLY strong drinks there, then went down the street to the Funky Buddah and had i dunno 2 or 3,... maybe 4 more drinks there Im not really sure.. ATC and Phone guy got along really well, and ATC really liked Damon as well. There was no drama between anyone... After that we went to Shotgun Willys to see some strippers, but it really wasnt too exciting last night.

What WAS interesting was that Chantelle Locked me herself and ATC in the bathroom at Opal, and demanded that he and I have "the convo"... i told her it was unnecessary and did not need to happen but she told me to STFU and lectured he and I it was pretty funny actually. She said "you like her, she likes you, you need to decide wtf is up and say that either you're together or you're not, you're fucking each other, or you're fuckin other ppl MAKE A DECISION". im just standing there laughing my ass off and in shock from this all. I know it was coming from a place of compassion for her, but she really lacts some tact LoL. So once we got out of the bathroom, I apologized to him for her acting like that and I felt it was out of line. But he said no not at all, it was a valid discussion and it was all good, she was doing her job as my BFF and no worries....

Chan's story is that while we were at Challengers he approached HER and asked what she thought was up between him and I, I guess....  Which kinda goes with him being so cool about it and saying it was a necessary conversation... so, who knows... i apologized once again on the way home, but really that was it.... crazy.

So eventually we drop every one off, i have chans car, left mine at opal, we come to my house, get his truck and go allllllllllllllll the way back to his house.. longest.drive.ever. after a night of drinking. We have really awesome hot drunk loud sex and pass the hell out. He was supposed to go to work today, but called in. Bad boy. Oh well.

Sunday: I had to get up around 9 and go do the switcharoo with the cars, went to breakfast with Chan & Damon MmMMm French Toast ala mode! Picked up the dog, took a shower, and got all my laundry together and headed BACK to ATC's house. Oy! So threw in some laundry then we went upstairs to take a nap cuz he was still feeling shitty... I wasnt really tired though, so once he fell asleep I decided to go to Old Navy and use my 30% off coupon since today was the last day. I got about 90 dollars worth of stuff for 60 something, 2 pairs of pants, a bunch of tank tops, and some underwear. Yay.
I Picked up some Del Taco on my way back for him, and right when I walked in I guess he had just woke up and said he was just thinkin bout me (= how cute. So we played like 7 games of pool, He won 4-3 though! Arrrgh.

Stupid WhoreFace roommate was being quite a bitch all day long, during one of our games of pool she went up got ready and said she was leaving, wasn't going anywhere specific, just needed to leave. I jokingly said to him "well u sure did piss her off!!" He just shook his head and was like " i think she just doesnt get it, i told her before she came out here, i dont want a relationship or anything serious etc etc etc, and she just thought that would change, and it hasnt and she doesnt want to accept it". So the fact that hes reinforcing this, and doesnt give a fuck about her tantrums, makes me feel better. And makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside that shes soooooo distraut and butthurt over it. Im sure our loud drunk sex last night didnt help any heheheh. 

She came back while we started watching 3:10 to Yuma, it was pretty good! I wasnt expecting to like it but I did. So once the movie was done I got all my stuff together and let him know that I was gonna go home. and he was like What??? Why???? all i could think of on the spot was, Uhhh cuz i have to work tomorrow?

Which was partly true, It'd be rude to wake up extra early there, and disturb him on his day off... and 2 i figured we'd been together since like 7 yesterday and maybe he'd want some time to himself.. and the tension in the room with whoreface was just getting on my nerves. So when I got home, I texted him and told him I felt kinda bad leavin, but I did so for the above reasons... so it seems he understood that, and so maybe tomorrow night we'll hang out (=

So anyways, Im glad we finally got some pics of us together, they turned out pretty cute, and everyone likes him so far... 

The elusive ATC was caught in photographs last night (=

Lol

Satc

Me n atc

The Dog's were supervising Tylers work on the door frame yesterday... cuz they're experts at it ya know

Delilah Supervising

Shadow

Foreman

My superman cape that is.

Here i was sittin in bed surfin the net mindin my own business coughing up some nasty green sploogness when Chan calls me freaking out and in tears. Her and chase got into a fight, and he told her she was nothing more than a paycheck to him, so she locked him out. So, he broke down the front door. Framing and all. So by the time I get there hes putting all the stuff into his car, shes crying and upset and talkin shit to him.

While Im there I get a call from Tanya asking if i can pick her up from work and take her home cuz shes too percocet'd up to do it and dying in pain...

So I call Tyler, cuz I know he's handy and could fix the door frame, cuz thats just a lil above my skill level. He agrees so I go pick him up, take him to chan's show him the damage, and leave to go get tanya.

Pick her up, take her all the way home across town, and then head BACK to Chans then Damon shows up who's been getting call after call from Chase, everyone says theyre pressing charges against the other, Chan actually did call the cops and filed a domestic disturbance charge. So Damon and Chan leave cuz shes scared the cops are gonna show up to arrest her....

Tyler finishes the door and we head over to meet up with them at Red Robin for lunch.

And now, I'm home. Checked my email, got a message from the dr saying my strep test came back POSITIVE. Well hello why havent they called me then to go get some meds??!!!??! So i call them, and leave a message with their after hours ppl to give me a call back soon.

Im so exhausted, and just want a nap. I'm hanging my cape up for today.

SuperSara